The Consent Show (PART TWO! Yes! Yes! Yes!)
Let’s continue to delve into the Yeses and the Nos with: Pamela Clare Wylie Samuelson, badass S&x Educator, S&xological Bodyworker, speculum activist, & creator of “S&x Ed for Grown-Ass People,” (episodes 50. your p*ssy is not a sheath & 51.
Let’s continue to delve into the Yeses and the Nos with:
Pamela Clare Wylie Samuelson, badass S&x Educator, S&xological Bodyworker, speculum activist, & creator of “S&x Ed for Grown-Ass People,” (episodes 50. your p*ssy is not a sheath & 51. take back the speculum) and:
New special guest M’kali-Hashiki Nln [em-KAH-lee-HAH-she-kee], Renegade S&xual Mystic, S&xological Bodyworker, Tantric Sacred Intimate, & creator of Fierce Passions, a Somatic Cyber Temple.
Along with Matthew Stillman, Tantric Bodyworker, student of the Orphan Wisdom School, deep and broad thinker, and one of my dearest friends (episodes 30. my heart is broken may it never heal & 31. the skull story).
We’ll discuss how power, privilege, and the colonization of bodies act on consent, age-appropriate consent ed, and agency culture.
A pertinent message from Ru Paul’s DragCon NYC 2019
Join us:
The Consent Show (Yes! Yes! Yes!)
Wednesday, May 20th, 2020
10pm EST / 7pm Pacific / 10am in the future in Bali
https://getvokl.com/live-broadcast/The-Consent-Show-PART-TWO-Yes-Yes-Yes
Here is a relatively lengthy but by no means exhaustive list-poem of other things that are not consent:
wearing clothes
not wearing clothes
wearing skimpy clothes
a first date
a second date
any number date
talking about s&x on the internet (ahem!)
being in a s&xual relationship
being in any kind of relationship
having had s&x with a person before
having made agreements with a person before
being pretty
being family
being a celebrity
being a child
flirting
sexting
suggestive slogans on t-shirts
being intoxicated
being a woman
being an intoxicated woman
going over to someone’s apartment
staying over at someone’s apartment
waking up in someone’s apartment
lying down
lying down with someone
being asleep
being unconscious
being in close quarters
being on the beach
being trans
being queer
being pregnant
being a black person who has hair
walking down the street
attending a concert / festival / conference / gathering of any kind
working in the s&x industry
working in a bar
working in an office
working on a set
working for a boss
doing a s&x scene on camera
riding a crowded subway, and:
not saying no.
None of these are consent.
In case there was any doubt.
