the podcast about intimacy that’s recorded while lying down.

  • episode 10. friend death: quickie with lila

    “One night we were walking in Williamsburg and he said, ‘I cannot do this with you, because it’s as though I have a broken leg and I could … I could lean on you for a while, put the crutches aside, and we could walk a while together, but, at some point, I’d become too heavy for you and you… Read More

    episode 10. friend death: quickie with lila
  • episode 5. spring awakening: quickie with ralph

    “I’m 40 years old. My sexual awakening is but a mere 7 years old and before that, everything sex was pure confusion.” – Ralph This quickie episode of horizontal with lila was recorded live at my launch party on May 21st, 2017, at Hacienda Studio, the sex-positive event space run by my Hacienda community in Bushwick, Brooklyn. Guests enjoyed reiki, massage, empathy… Read More

    episode 5. spring awakening: quickie with ralph
  • making private conversations public

    Tomorrow I launch my podcast, and celebrate. I’ll be celebrating with most of my favorite things about sleepovers: pillows, cuddling, milk and cookies, salty stories, and massages… I’m hosting a Podcast Launch Pajama Party at Hacienda Studio. It’s my pilot event for a series I’m planning to call Horizontal Storytelling. A show crossed with a sleepover crossed with a live… Read More

    making private conversations public
  • the why of horizontal

    Welcome to horizontal with lila! Horizontal is the podcast of intimate conversations about sex, love, and relationships that’s entirely recorded while lying down. I’m lying down right now. While typing. I’m committed to horizontality. When I was 28, I went traveling for a year. I dubbed it “looking for love in all of the places.” Whether I stayed in campers or guest… Read More

    the why of horizontal