Let’s continue to delve into the Yeses and the Nos with: Pamela Clare Wylie Samuelson, badass S&x Educator, S&xological Bodyworker, speculum activist, & creator of “S&x Ed for Grown-Ass People,” (episodes 50. your p*ssy is not a sheath & 51. take back the speculum) and: New special guest M’kali-Hashiki Nln [em-KAH-lee-HAH-she-kee], Renegade S&xual Mystic, S&xological Bodyworker, Tantric Sacred Intimate, & creator of… View Post
Hello horizontal lovers! Let’s explore the yeses and the nos with horizontal guest Pamela Samuelson, of episodes 50. your pussy is not a sheath, and 51. take back the speculum & horizontal guest Matthew Stillman, of episodes 30. my heart is broken may it never heal & 31. the skull story. Among many things, Pamela is a badass Sex Educator, creator of “Sex Ed for Grown-Ass… View Post
Dear Ones, OMG OMG OMG. I just found out this amazing thing! I’m starting to focus energy towards guesting on other podcasts. So tonight I’ve been Googling “Best Sex Podcasts,” and going down the most delicious internet rabbitholes. In poking around at the ones that came up, I found this article from Marie Claire, “The 18 Best Sex & Relationships… View Post
To listen to this episode: Become a Patron! Jay: Yeah, the whole process of arranged marriage is terrible. My mom was literally like, she’s like, “Okay, you pick five things — height, weight, education, looks, and something else — and you only get four.” So literally they would show me, they would show me bio-data and be like, “Okay, but… View Post
Dear Ones, It can be so challenging to feel intimate through our screens. The Virtual Intimacy Retreat exists to cultivate connection in an array of forms. It aims to make the digital space feel more embodied! It begins Friday, May 8th, and goes throughout the weekend. There are 38 facilitators with a cornucopia of offerings, ranging from: group self-pleasure rituals… View Post
Dear Ones, I know a lot of us are quarantined without a lover. (*raises hand*) How can we get it on, without the presence of our play partner? Especially if we’re not used to virtual eroticism? I’ll have a full panel of special guests on this one: Leidy Dahiana, Erotic Blueprint™ Coach , Tiana Peters, Queen of cannabis & kink, and Clare Marie Edgeman,… View Post
Dear Ones, I’ve been living with 14 people in an intentional community for the past 6 years. On this broadcast, I’ll be in conversation with Gui Perdrix. Gui stewarded a co-living space in Bali (before my time here) and has researched 100+ co-living spaces around the world, in preparation for his forthcoming book on communal living. We’ll discuss tools that… View Post
105. mom-ogomish: horizontal with expat parents (2 of 4) Hello horizontal lovers. horizontal with lila is Slow Radio. Consensual eavesdropping. Intimate talks about intimate topics recorded while lying down right next to each other, wearing robes. This is part two of my four-episode arc with Eri Kardos Patel and Jaymin Patel, recorded in February 2020. Eri: For Jaymin and I… View Post
Dear Ones, I miss touching people. And being touched. You too? Even if physical touch isn’t your primary love language, you still might be feeling the lack of it right now. I (and my friends) have some ideas to share. How to Format a Virtual Cuddling Session with Pro Cuddler & horizontal guest Tiger (episodes 16. kiss me i’m jew-witch & 17. professional cuddling) Self-soothing… View Post
Dear Ones, I recently listened to the great creative instigator Julia Cameron speak to the importance of maintaining some FRIVOLITY at this dire time. I’m remembering the way Roberto Benigni’s character in the film “Life is Beautiful,” makes the restrictions of the era into a game, so that one little human can be less frightened. I’m reminded of what… View Post