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Dallas: You need to treat it as if you’re gonna lose your virginity for a second time.
Hello my patron.
In episodes 126 & 127, I lie down with Dallas King, L.A. native, global hedonist, director, filmmaker, hot professor, and profoundly experienced bull. He is writing the book on cuckolding. It’s called GASM.
In episode 126. you spilled your hot come on my hot girlfriend: horizontal with the king of cuckolding part 1, we talked about craigslist personals, what cuckolding means, “the lifestyle” versus sex-positive culture, working as a massage therapist in L.A. & becoming a bull, his first time pleasing another man’s wife & being watched while doing it, grappling with professional, mental, and religious inhibitions, homophobia & sexual performance, how being a bull can affect your romantic relationships, humiliation & emasculation, agreeing on where to come, navigating couple dynamics, dealing with your own expectations, cuckqueens, and … my desire to be a female bull.
In this, the second part of our all-cuckolding, all-the-time conversation, we discuss:
- best practices for female bulls
- how to approach a couple
- verbal humiliation & mind fuckery
- sex as a spectator sport
- how cuckolding couples are getting younger and younger
- whether cuckolding is hereditary
- the secret logic of sexual fantasies
- the mini-miracle of navigating the relational dynamics,
- how to not fuck it up, as a husband
- slut training
- & doing what you’re truly, truly into
The next five episodes are so important that I’ve decided to release them for everyone. I just can’t put any of them behind the paywall. They all need to be heard, deeply. The next five episodes are a mini-series with Jet-Setting Jasmine, badass Black therapist & porn star, her partner, the Dominant King Noire, and their daughter, Mani, who gives me hope for the generations to come. Let the unabashed kinkiness, deep therapeutic wisdom, and sex-positive parenting of this couple be a beacon to us all!
Until next time: May you have someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to. I’m looking forward to sharing my fresh new poem, which is essentially, a love invitation, in front of an open mic audience for the very first time, and, possibly very soon, in person, to the one who inspired it.
Thank you for listening, my patron. I love you.
Come lie down with us again in Seminyak, Bali, Indonesia.
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Show Notes:
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[2:34] Best practices for becoming a female bull: have lunch with the cuckqueen and explain “This is how I fuck.”)
[3:56] How Lila desires to be a female bull, who dominates the woman in the couple
[4:28] Dallas on sapiosexuality, verbal humiliation, & mind-fuckery
[6:34] How does Dallas recommend Lila approach a couple she might be interested in?
[8:30] Dallas on the social norm of men as bulls & sport-fucking
[9:54] What Lila’s ex, a Dominant, said about wearing another man’s jersey
[11:19] Dallas on the changing demographics of cuckolding couples & his hypothesis that cuckolding is genetic
[14:50] Does Dallas consider cuckolding a sexual orientation?
[16:39] Musings on the psyche of a cuckold
[18:55] After Dallas’s first experiences, he got more and more propositions from both members of the couple
[20:20] What kind of bull archetype does Dallas fulfill?
[21:36] Dallas on bull-pretenders
[23:52] Dallas rhapsodizes about what these women do to prepare for him!
[26:11] Dallas on what not to wear as the woman in a typical cuckolding scenario
[27:32] Dallas cautions Lila on trying to make an emotional connection, as a potential bull
[28:55] How to not fuck it up, according to Dallas, if you are a man propositioned for a female bull situation by your partner
[30:27] Dallas dubs successful cuckolding a mini-fucking-miracle
[30:54] How does Dallas deal with the presence of the cuck during a scene?
[31:53] Dallas’s boundaries with the cuckold men
[32:14] Dallas tells the story of a most beautiful moment with a favorite cuckolding couple… and slut training
[33:01] Lila gets really excited as she thinks she invents a new portmanteau for a cuckold couple: a cuckle
[35:23] Dallas applauds this couple for going after what turns them on
[36:04] Dallas on the pros & cons of having illustrations in his forthcoming memoir / cuckolding manual: GASM & one illustration that he definitely wants to see
[40:20] What advice does Dallas have for those who want to get into cuckolding?
Dallas: You need to treat it as if you’re gonna lose your virginity for a second time.
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