Dear One, You can quickly, deeply ✨ CONNECT WITH ANYONE ✨ from a stranger on the plane … to a life partner of 50 years. I made a card game for connection. Now I’ll bring it to print! Intimacy: THE GAME is the product of 20 years of work in intimacy. I’ve pulled prompts from thousands of hours of intimate… View Post
Hey there bb! I see you out there. Fighting the good fight. Making adult podcasts. For adults. I’ll be at Podcast Movement 23 in Denver, CO, from August 21st – 24th. (I may be on a wee hiatus from releasing new episodes, but I’m still a podcaster, darling!) Join me there for a little kiki. Let’s talk: * pleasure podcasting… View Post
Don’t lose your peace. The sex isn’t worth it. “People wanna fuck, People have wanted to fuck since the beginning of time. The only thing that makes it weird is who we determine should fuck, or at what point they should fuck, or at, or like what gender should be allowed to fuck at what time. And I don’t get… View Post
Sex is a skill you can refine. Here’s how! “The thing about calibration, right? If I identify where the nerve is one time, it’s like I knew where I parked my car; I don’t have to think about this anymore. But if you didn’t know that, that is the right parking spot, you be looking, you’d be looking for like… View Post
Let’s redefine sex! “So I’m looking out the window at this brick wall thinking That’s it. That’s sex? That’s what all the movies are about? That’s what all the TV shows are about. That’s what all the, the epic poems are about? That’s sex? That can’t be sex. Is that really sex? Because if that’s sex, then, I don’t like… View Post
Dear One, Be titillated and enticed by this 4-minute teaser for my new show! Yes! Yes! Yes! SUBSCRIBE HERE! And won’t you leave me a little LOVE NOTE in the form of an APPLE PODCASTS REVIEW? Plz let them know just how much you are looking forward to the show! Thank you bb. Thank you so! much! for listening. With… View Post
GRAND NEWS, DARLINGS! The podcast version of my original Clubhouse show, Positively Sex! is coming to your ears via the iHeart Podcast Network! I am OVER THE MOON, bb’s!!! Positively Sex! Sex Ed, with Pleasure premieres October 13th, 2022. Save the date! The first episode is in the can, and I’ve been recording on the daily for the many, many… View Post
Hey there darlin’! I see you out there. Fighting the good fight. I’ll be at Podcast Movement in Dallas this week … will you? Join me, Lila (formerly the host of horizontal with lila, now the host of a very exciting, forthcoming, soon-to-be revealed new show) & Dixie de la Tour (host of Bawdy Storytelling and one of my most… View Post
Dear Ones, I had the opportunity to present my TED-style talk (which was a finalist in the TED Idea Search Latin America 2021!) The 7 Galaxies of Intimacy, at the famous SXSW conference in Austin, TX in March 2022. It was a talkshop, a talk + workshop, an iteration of the intimacy work I’ve been crafting for the past four… View Post
BoF VOICES 2021 May 20, 2022 To mark Mental Health Awareness Month, Intimacy expert and podcast host Lila lays out a formula for creating intimacy to combat loneliness. “We are simultaneously the most connected and the loneliest we have ever been,” said intimacy expert Lila at BoF VOICES 2021, just before the Omicron wave extended further restrictions and social distancing… View Post