the podcast about intimacy that’s recorded while lying down.

  • “done nothing with my life”

    I have always been incredibly hard on myself. These days it most often takes the form of “I’m 35 years old and I’ve done nothing with my life.” In years past, it was about feeling ugly, or not being “the best” at anything, or not being able to make a living in the career I trained for. (What does that even… Read More

    “done nothing with my life”
  • 15. friend death: quickie with lila

    15. friend death: quickie with lila In this quickie episode, recorded live at my podcast launch pajama party on May 21st, 2017, I lie down with my friend Becca and tell her a story. That series of recordings from the party comprise the first installment of my ongoing series Horizontal Storytelling. We recorded at Hacienda Studio, our sex-positive event space in Bushwick, Brooklyn.… Read More

    15. friend death: quickie with lila
  • 6. divine pleasure: quickie with a meditation teacher

    6. spring awakening: quickie with a meditation teacher This quickie episode was recorded live at my podcast launch pajama party on May 21st, 2017, at Hacienda Studio, a sex-positive event space in Bushwick, Brooklyn. My guests enjoyed reiki, massage, empathy sessions, and cookies upon arrival. “I’m 40 years old. My sexual awakening is but a mere 7 years old and… Read More

    6. divine pleasure: quickie with a meditation teacher
  • making private conversations public

    Tomorrow I launch my podcast, and celebrate. I’ll be celebrating with most of my favorite things about sleepovers: pillows, cuddling, milk and cookies, salty stories, and massages… I’m hosting a Podcast Launch Pajama Party at Hacienda Studio. It’s my pilot event for a series I’m planning to call Horizontal Storytelling. A show crossed with a sleepover crossed with a live… Read More

    making private conversations public
  • the why of horizontal

    Welcome to horizontal with lila! Horizontal is the podcast of intimate conversations about sex, love, and relationships that’s entirely recorded while lying down. I’m lying down right now. While typing. I’m committed to horizontality. When I was 28, I went traveling for a year. I dubbed it “looking for love in all of the places.” Whether I stayed in campers or guest… Read More

    the why of horizontal